You put on your itty-bitty, yellow polka-dot bikini underneath the Eskimo suit and feebly make your way over to Match. You click on the article and realize you have a LOT of work to do to be ready for dating. Each newsletter tells you to not be clingy, needy, or make him feel suffocated. You must be grounded, yet fun and flirty. You should find out what clothes and hairstyles he likesbut, you must do so with the understanding that he might be seeing other women, so you need to suck it up and be the epitome of emotional maturity while he decides which of you he wants to be with.