Do you think we ever end up staying friends? Do they ever try? Of course not! In my opinion, guys never actually want to be your friend after you break up. They say it to ease their guilt, not your pain. I was cheated on once. If that was true, why did he ruin our relationship for sex with someone else?
You go from spending a ton of your time with someone to not talking to them at all. Love is a huge risk and you might fail.
It seems to me that by suggesting that we try to be friends, they were just trying to make the failure less real. They want to keep the door open.
If you want to be with that person romantically and all they want is a friendship, the dynamic between you two will always be skewed. Meanwhile, you want to maintain the bond you thought you two had.
May 17, Staying friends after a relationship ends-is it a good idea? There is no definitive answer to this question. Just remember that building a friendship after a relationship is work. It isn't some easy lower gear you just shift in to. Before you say, "let stay friends" consider if it's what you really want, and whether it is worth the. Dec 06, He said that he wants us to "become close friends" and then "something might happen." Is this bullshit? Should I try to be friends with him if this is the only way to keep him in my life, knowing Author: John Ortved.
More importantly, if he could stand to treat you like crap as your boyfriend, why does he think he deserves to be in your life as your friend? You immediately connect with an awesome coach on text or over the phone in minutes.
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So my ex boss and i have been flirting and recently went on a dble date with a mutual friend and she told me he dont want a relationship just fwb but thinks i do so i cleared the air with him.
Then he told her that he hasnt tried to have sex with me because it wasnt the right time and didnt have that vibe. We were in contact for roughly weeks.
Everything seemed fine, I think we shared the chemistry, texting was cute- touch of flirting and teasing. Then silence from him for 1 day, he messaged me back saying he felt bad for talking to two people at the same time.
He got introduced to another girl by his friend, he told me he still likes me, was interested in me.
Dec 11, Home>Forums>Relationships>We dated now he wants to be friends only:/ New Reply This topic contains 7 replies, has 2 voices, and was last ated by anita 2 years, 4 months ago. Viewing 8 posts - 1 through 8 (of 8 total) Author Posts December 9, at am # RicaParticipant Hi everybody. I?m here because i need some insight of people who . Sep 22, Tis a simple question, no? If Marshall McCockNswag doesn't want to date you, why is he still making an effort to be your friend? Surely any man worth his weight in baby batter would not go through such efforts to hold on to a female friend that he . If you want to be with that person romantically and all they want is a friendship, the dynamic between you two will always be skewed. When he says "friends," he probably just wants an acquaintance. Meanwhile, you want to maintain the bond you thought you two had. It's not fair, it's not right and it leads you on to thinking something is.
Asked me to be friend and see how things go. I think she has more chances to be with him than I do.
They both have mutual friends, seems like she lives closer to him. I live an hour drive from where he is.
I replied to his message within an hour, I wished him best luck with the other girl. I think time would reveal everything and if one of us do reach out to each other.