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I live in Tigard Oregon. You made it very very clear that if a man cannot get hard then he should bother so if it does work then why would he not go for a much younger, sexier women!?!? Lots of interesting responses. I am 58 years old and think that the reason many men seek younger woman is that the perception is that as woman get older they have less interest in sex.
For us older men who still have a strong sex drive and good functioning equipment that can be frustrating. Woman need emotional connection to stay connected. Men need sexual attention to complete the connection. It sounds like several of the ladies on this site have had underperforming men.
Just remember Not all older men have this problem. At 58 I go to the gym three days a weekkayak, ski, bike,hike, eat healthy and take care of myself. I am not taking any medications. I am 58 and very horny all the time but not always does it get or stay hard after 40 ED will periodically happen and older you get the more often women have the great advantage in that dept as you do not have to be concerned that all will work your not being very fair.
Cancer, MS or other can happen to anyone incl. Finallyif can get hard, good looking, fitmoney any 58 man can get a 42 year old women why would they be interested in you and then being emasculated. This is my perspective. I am now Been dating for 15 years since my divorce.
I have had around 6 relationships since divorce. With the exception of one woman that was close to my She, all of them are younger then me by anywhere from 8 to 25 years.
Arm candy and dependency. Had I had the chance to do it all again I would of followed a different path. As I write this I have a 25 year old model in my bed wondering how to get her out nicely. As I get really old I wonder what I am doing. I feel almost embarrassed by my choices in life. I see you dying alone and sad.
But hey, look on the bright side - an SD will probably kill you before old age does. I just truly believe that sex is what bonds two people together and differentiates between a friendship and a real marriage. Its just a fact that women over 50 are not that interested in sex, as a rule. Honestly people, go to gym, workout. Lose that 90 lbs you think is is only 15lbs and you will see that people instantly go out with you.
Its just how we animals are. Stop deluding yourself and complaing and do the hard work in life to make yourself attractive and happy person. If you lose your money these girls will disappear. As we age wisdom appears. The world we live in is constantly advertising what makes people happy and successful. It took me a very long time to stop listening to what the outside world was saying that creates happiness and listen to my heart. While going through my divorce I did not date, instead I used this time to get to know me againmy likes and needs.
I am truly happy where I am with my life and if I find someone they will just add to my happiness. I feel this is a good post and it can serve as advice to many people out there going through rough situations. I picked some good facts from this post even though my situation is way opposite but there is something similar which is rediscovering ones self. Its important and has to happen.
Thats the main problem, we men get tired with the beauty and stuff that comes with younger ladies. There will be time all you will require is a real connection and ability to work on a certain matured level of thinking and so on.
Seriously I have never tried dating a younger person, never seen it as an option. I do a saporiviafrancigena.com group and because of the type of saporiviafrancigena.com I do it tends to attract younger adults than myself. From what I have found with the men in my group 40 and below is they really just want to have a conversation where there is no drama and judging.
It is hard for men to be themselves I think because a few women in their past who must have raked them over the coals for something they did or said. I have been in situations where I could see the line blurring but that is where it stopped. The dilemma I am facing is I have met a nice gentleman who is 10 years my senior.
He is retired, I am not. I have at least another 10 years to work which would put me at 67 before I retire. I have always pictured myself after retirement travelling around the country with my trailer for a month or two at a time. That would put this nice man at aged I really do not want to spend my retirement possibly nursing someone or leaving them behind because they cannot keep up. I think he wants more than just friends from our relationship.
On another note I was reading another site that was telling its readers the ideal age difference for when dating. It went like this: Take your age, divide by 2 then add seven. So I did this and came up with 35 years old would be the ideal age of my date. I am 57 years old. I then realized I was reading an article geared towards men. Are you freaking kidding me I thought. So that would mean I as a female should be dating someone that is years old according to this article.
I hope you have reconsidered women closer to your age. Fucking a 25 year old is just fucking. Sorry that happened to you. There were so many people i know who ended up getting divorces at your age because of cheating. Mostly the male partner cheated but in some cases it was the woman. I feel like when we reach 50, it is a time for change kind of a shake up time. Time to get rid of friends who do no help us in life.
Maybe changing things about ourselves or changing our profession. Some people use this time of upheaval to get better like eating better or getting rid of what is not serving us. Now the other half decide to have a mid life crisis. They try to cling to their youth or they fill like they have missed out on something or they think that their spouse no longer is what they want.
As weird as it sounds, try not to take what your husband did personal. Of course, it is personal but when he did that he was only thinking of himself.
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It had nothing to do with how pretty you are or how valuable you are but he went his base urges. Not a younger woman but in his mind a woman of more status. When she confronted him on the cheating he threw it back on her like you are fat etc.
She was 52 at the time. She ended leaving him and really had no shortage of men who came her way. Right after she left him she ended up having a short fling with a 32 year old which started out as a hook up kind of thing but he ended up sort of learning some grown up skills from her.
She was really embarrassed about the relationship because of the age difference but I told her know ones cares. It is remarkably common. Most likely you will need a bit of therapy to get over the betrayal and a good divorce support group might help. You might look at a site called saporiviafrancigena.com. It is not a singles site but an interest saporiviafrancigena.com site.
Everything from knitting to dancing saporiviafrancigena.coms. I joke that you could probably find a saporiviafrancigena.com on there for tearing paper because there are so many types of saporiviafrancigena.coms and you can even start your own.
No, physical impossibility. All you old crows made your choices. Jim You are a nasty person who no woman worth anything would want. Old men who date young girls delude themselves into thinking the girls really want them.
They think they look way better than they actually look almost alwayswhen in fact they are not attractive sometimes balding, potbellied, and wrinkly. What the want is a daddy figure or money, or maybe a short fling with someone until they find a younger man. Oh, Taxmeless, help this girl to get her own act together.!!! No one is to support, no one is to guide, or even to listen.
Dave You know I guess I have a different attitude than a lot of older men. We probably all need to feel loved a appreciated by someone whether it is someone our age or someone younger or even older.
I can be attracted to someone younger than me or someone close to my age or older if the chemistry is right but I want it to be real not just about sex. I know when I was young the driving factor was someone that appealed to me but might not have been serious about a relationship but I passed through that period and wanted a serious meaningful union.
I remember while on a business trip I had a encounter with an attractive woman who wanted to be more than friends. I had two children so we attempted to get beyond this but she ended up leaving after 27 yeas of marriage. I really want to have a loving connection with the person I am involved with.
I might be able to have that connection with a much younger person but I know that is not practical. I think a connection with someone a little younger, my age or even older is more realistic. I still see my ex at family functions and she has remarried. Maybe she found what she had was a lot better than she realized.
Any way this is my opinion a sexual connection with a woman. I am 54 yrs woman, many friends around my age divorce they seen look good and happy with their single life. Please when you are getting old in realistic actually women happy and willing to divorce. Please be realistic if you really have someone woman at 50s 60s love you care of you. Guys you are just Lucky.
Well let me say one thing eye candy can be your age. And this may come as a shock but you do have many beautiful women yr age who could make yr heart skip a beat. So good luck and remember we do exist. Beauty is from the inside and shines on the outside. Men still want til very old age so why they try to go as young as possible. Sex is all in the mind. At almost 52 I am still interested in sex and I believe it is necessary to create the bond in a meaningful relationship, which is what I am looking for.
I am not looking for just a male friend. We are all here to learn and figure out life. Be happy that you are now figuring things out.
There always looking for younger woman. I know what you mean. At 51 I dated a 21 year old for about a year and it was so embarrassing when she held my arm walking down the street. She came after me. You still feel funny and very uncomfortable. Before her my last girlfriend was 18 years younger than me.
And I was pursued there again. Given my situation, i found it hard to meet women my own age because I have lived a very hard and unconventional life due to my addiction. I feel like I screwed up my life with drugs and in reality I did. I missed all the good things in life like having a wife,children, a career to be proud of. My only hope is to live the rest of my life doing the best I can. Who takes care of herself and is still not jaded by life. She could have trust issues. The trick is to be aware of your stuff and not let it get in the way.
I know this is long. Guess i had a lot to say here. And these men are athletic, fit, attractive and successful. Sure, they can date younger women, but many chose to date those closer to their age. Relatable is their reason. I feel generalization is never accurate. I did not date through separation, the divorce process or after divorce. Greg Stewart, Concord, Ca. Hi Greg. Kudos to you for even attempting to date women closer to your age. I am 50 and prefer women my age. Where are they?
They are not responding to my personal ads, they are not in the meet up groups or volunteer groups, and they are not in the bars. Can I assume no one wants me? I think it is more that your path has not crossed yet with that woman who is perfect for you. The timing of these things is not always our timing. Just keep on keeping on, have faith, and continue to pursue activities that have meaning for you. You will meet someone when you least expect it. Because we r sitting here reading posts that say we may as well accept the fact that we are going to be alone the rest of our lives.
I have so much MORE to offer at 53 thatn i did at I left a totally dysunctional relationship i tried to keep going for 8 yrs.
And he is clean to boot. Signed up on eharmony. I swore in my 30si will never be one of those sad 50somethings looking for a guy. And i feel foolish doing it! My sisters husband of 23yrs dumped her for someone 3 yrs older than their daughter. That was 15 yrs ago and she never found anyone after that. So to answer your question.
My dad is a very supportive and loving father and he is my best friend. Everyone deserve a chance to show who they are and be appreciated despite their age. Celine dion and her husband had a beautiful marriage despite their age difference,marriage is about people and how much they are willing to commit to each other not about age.
There are a lot of lovely ladies of different age group out there,spread your wings,get to know people. You may never know where you might end up finding ur happiness.
As for me and my partner we are going to have children together within the next two years,he is a great father to his children so I have no doubt he will be a good father and he is going to make an incredible,extraordinary,super excellent husband. I am done-zo with competition and way overdue to be the icing. My advice? Let them take up knitting or something. And sometimes the women are worst then the men. I agree, Greg I do think its awesome you do want someone close to your age.
I am a 51 divorcee and just beginning to think about dating. Your gal is out there so keep looking! I am a responsible Man. I am a fun loving man, jovial, lovely and passionate. I think of myself as being clever but harmless. I am supporting, caring and have a loyal and tolerant character, humble, honest, understanding and truthful.
I have had plenty from 23 to 39, really? I still think at my age I have a lot of love to give. Where am I going wrong? I call us men that date their agethe real men.
The best is to make do of whats available at hand. Its more fun with someone close your age, because communication and understanding will be easier. I wish this meme would die. Greg, Your story could have been mine, except I am female, and I have been divorced 15 years. The stories have replayed over the years, and I have come to question if I am ever to find a partner to grow old with, as it seems that I am already doing that!
But for a marriage that ended in tears, it had many good years that unfortunately could not be salvaged. I still believe in marriage and believe that men and women are meant to live in harmonious relationships.
Best of luck to you on finding someone with whom to share your life! My name is Crystal I have very important issue to discuss with you.
Write me back if you are interested,Thanks. I seem to attract the kind of guy that likes my free-spiritedness yet are often the types to start clipping my wings as soon as my attention is elsewhere.
I never ever thought ageism would be an issue, I thought it was an imagined thing. I still believe, however, in my weird optimism that out there is someone for mesomeone at a similar age who can appreciate me and whom I can appreciate. Thanks Linda for this article. Brilliant and I can relate so much to you. Women when they get older start to lose what men are attracted to.
If men are not physically attracted to you then they will not pursue you. Women are also attracted to looks. Young Women are not designed to be attracted to infertile old men. I agree, RP. I have been online dating in my own age group. Most women my age are not sexually attractive, youth, excitability and plump skin is sexy.
However those few women that have got it are naturally very selective and sought after. I am not looking for a physical relationship with 50 somethings yes I get wood though the ladies would like physical sex. Welli am a married man of 54 years looking for 60 and 70 year old pretty women thst want a nice sexy relationship. Brig you might try dating a few men who are just a bit younger since you say you look younger. I not talking really young but maybe mid to late 40s or early 50s.
My dad was that way. I am always amazed that people do not understand. Men your age use myself as an example are still very horny women my age post menopause are no longer interested in a sexual loving relationship - they are done with sex.
Women are done at men around so it make sense for a man to go for a yr younger women. No thanks. Your are an idiot for generalizing. So get over yourself.
Turn it around and interview them. Your the man it is your job to interview not the irrational women. Good grammar will take you far. Even with the young gals. Trust me. You actually know of a rational woman! The ignorance and arrogance within some people causes them to stereotype others. Best to avoid them. It may well be that friendship first is a good rule, not having expectations for effort and not being used for validation allows you to set your value.
It is you that matters and how you behave that gives you pride in yourself - what missing part of you will be completed by dating or a relationship maybe address that first. Too bad you and I live on opposite coasts! The problem with men is they look for beauty on the outside.
Maybe if more men would look there non of us would be alone in our 50s. Double bingo!! And even if you find someone that wants to date youafter one date they already start implying sexual stuff.
That takes time. I will need to develop feelings for you. Is that too much to ask for? To have feelings before you get all touchy feely with me?
Many women have wonderful personalities and beautiful hearts. Some just look at pictures and move on, they never read my profile. So it happensto both men and women who would give per cent each.
I wished a lady would take time to read about me markww2 on pof in Houston. You go guuuurl! Ever heard of a spellcheck!? I get feeling you will be alone for a very long time. Hi sarah! How are you? So both men and women are superficial.
Signed up to a dating site- guy kept asking tell me about yourself. I did. Divorced twice. I picked men that were wrong for me. My fault but as soon as I shared poof! Men are gone. I am fit,attractive, employed,debt free, own my home, and am making it despite no child support. I have 2 great teens that will soon be gone. I am a stable person that was desperate for a family and married for that. No one will touch me.
I figure if God wants me in a relationship he will plant a man in front of me. I just wish my life had turned out differently. In my experience, when middle age women say that they are fit and attractive, they look for the same in men.
We are talking about people over 50, whose bodies are way different than they were 20 years ago. When women say that they are fit and attractive but they are not looking for the same in men, they still send the same message. There is nothing wrong with looking for the best fit and attractive guys but with age the odds are getting drastically smaller for you. In this age group, I see way more overweight women than men and this is very unattractive. Most or maybe all who chat me up look like guys, seriously.
Young women tend to be much slimmer, sex with them is on a totally different level. Plus they like or at least are not afraid of showing their bodies. After that comes personality, but this is another subject. Really guy? Please refrain from your arrogance about looks. Get over yourself.
Check yourself before you wreck yourself Seymour Heiny. Did you give your self that name because you are sugar-coating what you see when you look in the mirror? Have you ever heard of grammer check? Or maybe you should consider going back to adult school for a high school diploma. It is hard to even consider you as an adult! Christian servant. Not out there. Why is it hard to connect to good souls? Looking for someone who wants to just start out slowly. Looking to meet someone who would appreciate starting out slowly.
If interested, please reply. I am looking for a church going woman that is not over religious because of my moral values. I am 71, in good health, intelligent, interested in all things related to humans, caring, want a final life partner to talk with about life, enjoy activities together, travel some, enjoy family gatherings. I want to do good things for good causes and contribute my little bit to a better world.
I was in business and retired into charitable work and family, separated in Dechave an 8 year old son that I love dearly, unfortunately mom moved him north and we see each other Sundays and connect on phone two evenings a week.
Not sure how access will be increased as she is unwilling to do so as she wants to raise him in her religion which is different than mine. Anyway, I hope to be back enjoying my self with a woman in the not to distant future, we can talk on phone if you like or by email so we can exchange photos. It would be nice to meet some of the good people on here, but this is not a dating site.
Try some other venue. Good luck to you!
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That sounds tough. I hope, in the year since you wrote this, that you have met someone who is good to you and good for you. Greg - I hear you. My ex-wife 20 yr marriage celebrated turning 50 with several brief affairs, never ever dreaming I would find out. So where are all the single, fit, something women?
What am I missing? Evidently at 50 I am missing something too. I would gladly settle for just one. Not every on run after younger women, I like older one.
Its amazing this thread continues after all this time. If not a dating sitethen how do people like us meet? I know a few that do this and when I ask them out, they look at me like I had two heads.
They go through more drastic changes than men do at this age. So in many cases it can be understood. The problem is that when they do go out or advertise themselves online, they rather go for a brief encounter with a decent guys instead of a matching ones. I know those, too. No self criticism. My guess is that they are still dreaming about that prince, like little girls, hoping that an awesome guy will fall in love with them. Well, women are more emotional, not as rational as men so this also should be understood.
I get hits from women older than me, even 10 years older! What are they thinking? They look like my mother. The luckiest guys over 50 are those who enjoy sex with older, overweight women and have enough energy to go to gym regularly. I have a couple of good friends like this, so I tried that too. In my experience, personal hygiene was in par with their weight. Well, this also should be excused because it is harder to keep large body clean than the tiny one, especially in hard to reach areas.
I hope it answers your question. Never thought about the smelly part.
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After being there for him through drug rehab and all his other addictions; my 58 year old ex told me he was going to go find a BBW that has a secure job and can take care of him and all he has to do is service her once in awhile. What type of fridged and cold woman do you end up with. Holy crap. I am appreciative of the feedback although it is a little brutal.
Just your normal everyday wtf insecurity stuff. I have no idea what my future holds. I am a bit terrified. I never thought this was going to be it. My family was forever, I believed that. Regardless, to the guys contributing, thanks for your two cents. It is much appreciated. Wish you all the best in finding your happily ever after.
Im approaching 60, still attractive with only a few extra pounds and very creative. But I my experiences were that men wanted me to put my faith into them, yet they really werent there for me. Now I just want to make more money for my older needs as I never found Mr. Men are not wild about women with a child from a difficult ex They dont want problems so theyll just get out of it w young woman.
Sussn - I empathize, but let me share what I uncovered. Very well said Greg. We had a failure in communication that seemed to start breaking down as the kids were leaving for college. There have been wonderful happy times raising three gorgeous children, 2 in college 1 in mid teens, all seem to be happily adjusted life is good. However, about 5 years ago I discovered with her help a little problem in my family called alcoholism and cleaned up my act many years ago and got sober.
However she continued to drink. This was, I believe, part of the problem. I love you go away! They will need me. However these types of relationships are very destructive to us and is modeled by our children. So the behavior might not be of a psycho it might be behavior modeled after our parents! Give us a break! It also includes people who were raised in other types of dysfunctional families.
They tend to be very responsible and take very good care of others which helps create the delusion that everything is normal but we guess at normal.
Many of us live in denial about this thinking that our parents were wonderful role models for how to love our partners stop and think how many times did you see your mother and father hugging? How many times do you remember your mother hugging you? Those were two very eye-opening questions for me. But ladies, do your homework on narcissistic abuse before dating a guy that seems too good to me true.
Holy shit, Valerie. Skip is speaking his truth, which is actually pretty heartbreaking and painful for anyone that has walked that path. So, not a narcissist, just a divorced dad, trying to do the next right thing and not get kicked for it. Getting out of mine! Only good thing were 2 beautiful grown children doing very well for themselves. Yep, even a 83 year old retired Baptist minister stated that after menopause the only thing they want is money and that they are no longer interested in the physical side.
To Dave from Dave I agree, I tried my luck at 2 dating sites for about six months, and not even a wink or a smile. Women do seem to make more of the mans looks rather than anything else. I have much better things to do with my time than waste it with little chance of success. Even if you found a woman believe me after a while you would not live up to her expectations.
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We are in an anti malewomen are the victims of men period in history. Stay single keep your money and rent sex if you need it that bad. Hi Dave My name is Sophie 3. I have been were you are.
It would be nice to meet someone who is honest, looking for someone their age not 20 years younger. I usually start my profile letting men my age know I am disabled with MS. Does not stop me from living, things just take longer. Especially music wise. My favorite is the Blues and always rock and roll. My life did a I like to say but as I have been told I have lived all ready for 3 people. Things have changed for me but I am still going to live just not enough for 3.
I am in the Boston area. Maybe a bit of a chat. Sophie 3. Im 54 and I am on a couple of dating sites. I post just my profile picture, username, age and city and that is it! I get 25 to 30 messages a day from different woman and an average of 45 - 50 that have viewed my profile. So I have to agree with Dave. You can meet someone at any age. I think that women Kitty is a jackass. If you are looking, you will find someone.
These are negative stereotypes and utter bull. John, you are so right. Be open to your likes as well as the person in your life and above all be honest. Life is definitely easier for women! It is insane to think otherwise. Consider a few facts: 1. Women have the ability to go out an any given night and be outnumbered 3 to 1 by men. Men are looking for someone to just acknowledge them.
Does anyone really believe that men are not the most docile people in the ordinary family. Consider the body differences ovulation and PMS and just consider how often women are friends with other women. Men have friends from childhood.
Women rule the world and it is not pretty behind closed doors. Case in point why men are looking for younger women.
That means emotional, intellectual, spiritual, and physical. I have nothing against sex and I feel it is an important part of a successful loving relationship. Hi Debbie, I read your last couple of replies and agree with you about sticking to your values. Do not let anyone make you feel differently. I do enjoy sex and I crave that closeness with a loving partner. If you men want the younger women then go for it. I prefer someone around my age because I will have more in common with that man and hopefully they will have the same level of maturity.
Wow no comparisonBest love I have ever had. Not all are divorced - some are widowed as I am. Kathy, I am a guy who has an older lady friend and we are very open with each other. She is still quite beautiful at 70 and is newly divorced. She told me that her husband has ED problems and has for years. The last time I talked to her she was thrilled at how many young men were wanting to date her. She is still quite sexual and has had several men much younger, says she feels like 30 again.
As much as I still enjoy sex at 50, for me sex is a special act, sacred even, shared between two people who really care about each other. I think it is the most precious gift you can give another person. Those are just my standards. I will date to find my forever friend and marry and then consummate the marriage. Giving myself away to a man with sex is degrading. The relationship ends and where are you?
There are many women in other cultures who do not have sex before marriage and they expect to be seriously pursued by men who are capable of supporting then as well as their families on certain cases and it end up producing very long-term and successful marriages. Maybe American women should study the other cultures too see if any of their practices would work for them. Ya, I caught that as well.
It is a medical fact that women past menopause no longer desire sex what I do not understand is why women are on dating sites when they are no interested in the physical side - at best it is very nasty.
At least there are women over 50 who are honest in the descriptions and make it very clear that they are no longer interested in sex. That makes us all feel so much better. Thank you.
Yes freindships are important but to say that the chances of finding someone are THAT bleak is just mean. I live on this world for over 50 years. I have friends and coworkers dating women from online websites, casual encounters, everything.
And I never saw a guys over 50 with women 20 years younger. Except celebrities who can really do it, all talk about guys preference to date women the age of their daughters is just a cliche. Not true at all.
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I see this repeated on this website many times and I wonder where it comes from. This is just a BS. They ALL come with children and usually they are from different countries so they also upgrade the lifestyle for their children. That is my experience. Sorry ladies. Everyday Joe gets anything he can put his hands on to save money on massage with happy ending.
Old, overweight, dressed up as men, with bad hygiene and horrible attitudes, full of baggage from previous marriages. These guys hope for the best, do their best, try very hard, and eventually run away from them. Usually the next morning.
I see this happening over and over again. It happened to me, too. What a terrible thing to say. This is definitely a generational thingand my generation just did not produce great relational partners. We are the transitional generation. The peanutbutter between the baby boomers and turn of the century kids. We got the shaft being middle kids.
Nice attitude. I choose to keep an open mind and not judge people. That I find hard to believe! I live in Boise, Idaho as a male, it is horrible. So, women do have it better at least here in the Treasure Valley, Idaho. Guess that depends on what part of the country they are in. The ratio here in Boise, Idaho favors women. I am moving to Raleigh, NC in a few days.
Kinda getting sick of it! When most of the people here are married or have a girlfriend, the odds go down. You will find someone, men are not all the same. Not all men in their 50s want to start a new family, with a younger lady. We might want to be able to relate, talk about commonalities etc.
Men might be fun shy by 50, not wanting drama, or gold diggers. So find your match, might have to look harder. As for men older than you, be aware that those years and our shorter life span conspire. So you are 65, and that dude is 75 with less miles and poorer health prospects. We know people in that boat 65 year old lady, who cannot travel with her less than healthy hubby.
Food for thought. Kitty, Interesting. I became a widower in after nearly 20 years of marriage to my same age partner. She died just after our 50th birthday.
We had sons ages 14 and 16 in the home. She died of breast cancer. I had not dated much prior to my marriage primarily due to my career demands in a family business. But I enjoyed being a family man. I started going out about a year after becoming a widower.
My wife had two children from prior marriage who were outraged. Our two sons were ok with me going off. I would not call it dating at first. Looking back, I was learning to breathe again. Some women were mean. I am an inherently monogamous person, but several women had casual sexual relations with prior lovers while showing serious interest in me. One lady asked me to work on her computer and while there, discovered her midnight escapades, sometimes after I dropped her off from an evening.
One received a call on her phone machine while I sat in living room and she in her bathroom inquiring if I had left yet and to call, he was circling the block. One called me late one evening, drunk, to tell me she missed me.
I had gone camping with my sons. She was a Sunday school teacher. I went to her house to find her passed out in the floor, door unlocked. We talked. My point is, it is really confusing out there.
Me get mixed signals. Usually a sign of some extended emotional codependency going on involving sex. Hi, I am 72, wid0wer, my wife had been sick for 10 years, some time at home, then a Care Home, then a Nursing home.
I have been out with some ladies, I am amazed. They were or were old enough to be nannies, They are nothing like you would think of a nanner. They appear to have been to the gym for an hour a day! I am not complaining, as I see sometimes 2 or 3 one week, then 4 another week. Excellent content. But, if any of you ladies know of any ladies in Treasure Coast Fl that would like to connect and have some fun just email me or contact me 7 7 two 9 nine nine right 1 three 3. Than why bother looking for someone?
I could say is hahaha.
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