I am a 26 year old lady and I am considering dating an 18 year old guy. I just wanted to know what you all think. Is it wrong? He has no problem but his mom do. She thinks I will end up using her son and believe me that is not my intention. Any advice? Ok so I'm 13 and I am dating an 18 year old, we both have strong feelings for each other and I just want to know if its illegal to be dating, we Aren't going to have sex so I don't want your opinions I just want to know if its illegal for us to date and hang out!
You need to tell someone.
If you have sex with him its rape and he can go to prison. Your 12,as mature as you think you are,you in a bad place right now and need adult help,if not your parents,how about a teacher or aunt?
Romefalls19 Posts: 4, Reputation: What kind of sexual predator is this animal? I mean come on, he's 19! First off, what could you two possibly talk about! This is just disturbing. Find latest posts by Romefalls Alty Posts: 28, Reputation: The 19 year old that is interested in you is a pedophile. That's a fact. He's an adult, you're a child.
Dating you is illegal and downright creepy! What could you two possibly have in common? If your parents are telling you this isn't okay, then I have to disagree with you. They are making the right decision for you.
When you're 20 then date a 27 year old, but at 12, a 7 year age difference is not okay.
May 18, No. Because you are barely a teenager-still a child both maturity-wise and in the eyes of the law-and he is an adult. He may be a teenager, but he is so much older than you (six years is a lot of growth and change in the teen years). Listen, I'm 1. May 11, So,my best friend started dating a 20 year old like 4 months ago. Hes almost 21 and hes very immature. I know they're not having sex (don't ask how but I know,for positive). She just turned 12 a few months back. I don't really think they should be together (I try to stay out of other peoples Business but this is worrying me) and I was wanting your opinion. 12 year old dating room chat room [public] created by muleta30 If your 12 and need a bf or gf this is where youll find one If this chat room is illegal, click here.
Justwantfair Posts: 3, Reputation: JudyKayTee Posts: 46, Reputation: I'm not sure I know what love is. What I do know is that a 19 year old who has anything in common with a 12 year old has serious emotional problems. Has anyone ever spent any time actually talking to a 12 year old? So, yes, he's a pedophile with other problems.
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It just makes him a British pedophile. I wonder does he realise your age? Even still,have you ever heard of young girls getting pulled in over the internet by perverts? It happens,everyday.
12 year old dating 19 year old
Stop making contact,tell someone. Hang out with your friends,and don't get onto sites where you could be in danger Curlyben Posts: 18, Reputation: Originally Posted by Altenweg. So what are you two doing together? Are you hooking up over the internet, via email, video chat.
The fact is, you're 12, he's 19, he's a pedophile, you're a child. End of story. Originally Posted by Romefalls I do have to wonder if the OP has been honest about her age.
So many people lie over the internet, it could be that this 19 year old thinks she's older then she really is.
So maybe we should give him a little benefit of the doubt. Doesn't change the fact that he'd still go to jail.
What the little 12 year old doesn't realize is that the FBI is really cracking down on things like this. The 19 year old may not be the only one to suffer consequences.
So, OP, if you really care about this guy, go to No Contact, start being 12, stop trying to do adult things until you're an adult. Trust me, you're not mature for your age, not at all. In fact, your actions truly show how very immature you are. Why stop at 19, I'm sure there are more than a few 69 year old pedophiles as well that might be interested.
And I'm sorry to say that at 12 you have hardly matured in any way at all. Nor can you grasp the concepts at play here. ANY 19 year old that's interested in a 12 year old is a pedophile. Plain and simple. Any 12 year old that thinks they are in love with a 19 year old has very clearly been manipulated and groomed by that far more mature person. And yeah that works either way with either gender.
Something else you will learn in due time is a 12 year differnce at 40 is no different than a 1 and at most 2 year difference at your age. THere is a vast amount of difference between 18 and 21, much less 19 and pre-teen.
Odds are your parents really do make the right decisions and its you who don't see it as you lack the life experience to make such judgements. And NO at 12 that is impossible to be able to do. That's not a swipe, that's just reality.
You don't suddenly wake up knowing everything, and you certainly don't learn all that by Hell, some adults have a hard time doing that by And a final note You may have entered puberty at 8 but you certainly haven't matured yet by any definition, physically, mentally or emotionally.
You have far too many years to go before that happens. Cat Posts: 8, Reputation: Jan 12,PM. Stop playing games on the internet.
Unless you met this guy in person, neither of you know each other's true age.
a 12 year old dating a 19 year old?
As far as I know, you could be a 38 year old man getting his kicks by pretending to be a 12 year old girl with a serious problem. It is amazing how many trolls people trying to get other people upset put phrases in their posts like 'my parents don't understand me', 'I am mature for my age', or 'I am sooooo confused' just to make their 'story' seem more credible.
People who prey on others use those same tactics to reel in their 'prize'. I am not saying that is what you are doing or questioning your age and motives. If you ask for 'proof', he can send you someone else's and you would never know until it was too late. Stick to groups of friends your own age who you know personally. Allow yourself to mature gracefully and naturally.
Enjoy the journey even if it isn't always pleasant, there are times to treasure though it doesn't feel that way. Here's an interesting story for you A few years ago my partner cheated on me, now he didn't cheat in the physical sense, he was talking dirty to a girl over the internet. The girl he was talking to was supposedly a 19 year old living in America we live in Australia Turns out this girl was only 13 and lived in our state!
He immediately severed contact when he found out her age as he knew it was wrong yeah I know the cheating was wrong but even he could see a 13 year old was just creepy beyond reason I'm wondering which one of you is being honest Either he has something wrong with his head, or he is just that perverted. Don't talk to him. Don't even consider talking to him. Listen to your parents, and the others who have answered your questions before me- they have more wisdom than you. Enough said.
Sorry if this sounds harsh.
Dec 05, Seriously? You're seriously asking this question? There are some people whose opinion of who you're dating and the age gap between the two of you ought to matter to you. First and foremost, the girl herself. Is she willing to date you, ancient fos. Any 12 year old that thinks they are in love with a 19 year old has very clearly been manipulated and groomed by that far more mature person. And yeah that works either way with either gender. Something else you will learn in due time is a 12 year differnce at 40 is no different than a 1 and at most 2 year difference at your age. Jun 25, a 19 year old dating a 14 year old isn't pedophile nor wrong. It's very interesting, but not wrong. I'm 20 and I wouldn't date anyone younger than Only because I am intellectually, mentally, and emotionally much more mature than them that it would be so ridiculous.
Now, excuse me while I go puke. This is one thread where I actually hope the OP is a Troll.
If not then take the advice people have given you on here and prove how mature you really are. Your too young for him and age does make a difference until you are out of college. Is a 21 year old dating a 25 year old weird not so much, but you guys are worlds apart.
Your in middle school he's in college thats a huge diffrence. There's nothing wrong with an age difference but until you're 18 you should stick to kids your age. And I personally do not let my man go to strip clubs but if that's what you feel is better than I gotta let you live your life and learn from your mistakes. Yes you are you are been like any other 14 yr old all have a crush on older men Have you met his other GF?
What do your parents say? Good of you,even if you did not OK that do you think he'd not GO?
I love him so much you say and i believe you Hun you will,but Hun he will not be in love with you he will find you aBUG soon really. Answer Save. Peter Lv 4.
Like the girl said before me, at least you're not having sex. It's very interesting, but not wrong. I'm 20 and I wouldn't date anyone younger than I'd be careful. You are walking in dangerous territory. A 19 year old guy can be sweet, but cruel as well. How do you think about the answers? You can sign in to vote the answer.
yes a 13 year old can date a 14 year old it's only 1 year apart and it isn't in the law:) Asked in Age of Consent & Underage Relationships, Teen Dating Is it illegal for a 14 year old girl to. Feb 07, Office worker, 27, who spent the night with year-old girl he met on a dating app after she pretended to be 19 is jailed for two-and-a-half years Carl Hodgson, 27, took the girl, 12, back to his. Dec 01, My friend is 12 and people think shes older!! She went to a 17 year olds sleep over party. And met a 19 year old who became her bf they made out in fao shworts he has a mustash and is like !!!! hes got some brain ishoes cuz i mean hes dating a 12 year old!!! they went to movies and stuff.
Shakespeare Lv 5. You're 14, you're crushing, and you're clueless. No offense, I mean. Follow your heart, kid.
You should think long and hard about why a 19 year old wants to be with a 14 year old. Show more answers Still have questions?
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